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I've had people try to manipulate me into thinking that their wrong doing is mine. How do you tolerate someone blaming you for something they did? Call it out. Do not allow anyone to come around and put their own feelings on you. This behavior is often referred to as **projection**. Projection is a psychological defense mechanism where someone attributes their own undesirable thoughts, feelings, or behaviors onto another person. Instead of recognizing their own faults, they "project" them onto someone else, making it seem like the other person is the one with the issue. In some cases, this can also be associated with **gaslighting** if the person is trying to make the other doubt their own perception of reality. Call it out when you see it! Even if it seems like you're the bad guy, trust me, you are doing a good deed! Anything to help self-awareness! #yourewelcome